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A Threat to Your Relationships?

A Threat to Your Relationships?

The modern trends in the art of negotiation focus on 3 aspects of communication: words, tone of voice, and body language. This simplistic view of human interactions and persuasion, especially in how we negotiate to get what we need and want, is baffling. Communication...

Ever Wonder What’s Your Non-Conscious Programming Like?

Ever Wonder What’s Your Non-Conscious Programming Like?

Our non-conscious programming is constantly running in the background, infiltrating all things conscious. It influences and manipulates our daily decision-making, habits, and beliefs. For example, if my goal is to remain calm when triggered, then a mere decision in...

Need a Quick Confidence Fix?

Need a Quick Confidence Fix?

When it comes to confidence, there are 2 foundational rules you need to keep in mind: Confidence is situationalConfidence is subject to change You may be confident as a tennis player but crumble at the thought of speaking in front of a large group of strangers. Or...

Want More Calm in Relationships?

Want More Calm in Relationships?

Have you noticed how your day is compiled of tiny timed fragments? You have 6 extra minutes to lay in bed after the alarm. You have 20 minutes in the bathroom to get ready. 10 minutes for breakfast. 25-30 minutes for the commute. X minutes for lunch before another x...

The True Purpose of Holidays

The True Purpose of Holidays

My husband doesn’t like holidays. Apparently, holidays are nothing but commercial inventions to sell us stuff we don’t need. He’s not quite Grinch since he doesn’t mind my delight with holidays, but he participates with great reluctance and furious criticism. Yet...

Can We Hide Our Thoughts?

Can We Hide Our Thoughts?

Ice-berg analogies have got to be some of the most over-used analogies in the world of analogies. But I guess since these ice monstrosities are massive in size and strength, they can handle the general wear-and-tear in PowerPoints across the globe because a few days...

2 Categories of Relationships And Why You Need Both

2 Categories of Relationships And Why You Need Both

Have you noticed how people are like driftwood on the ocean? Some drift along with you forever and ever, as if holding hands. Some drift in and out of your life, and then in again. And some bump into you with a big bang, only to be taken away by the next wave. Yet no...

Why Low Self-Esteem Is Hurting Others

Why Low Self-Esteem Is Hurting Others

Have you ever wondered why people with large over-blown egos are more likely to succeed than the reserved I-don’t-think-much-of-myself folks? Both are indicators of self-esteem and versions of judgment: the former I’m better than you, and the latter You’re better than...

The Ruthless Elimination of ‘Friends’

The Ruthless Elimination of ‘Friends’

Here’s what I’ve learned from my recent conversations with several friends. Not the “I-don’t-really-know-them” friends, but real friends. The friends I call and talk to, get together frequently, and more often than not discuss all the problems away. Since the...

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